Sunday, July 31, 2016

15 years

Another year goes by and Dru and I celebrate our anniversary.
It's 15 this year!
We saw the new Bourne movie last night. We both LOVE the Bourne series. We were going to watch it with some mates but that wasn't going to be until August 19th and they were a maybe, so we bit the bullet and just went.
It was our least favourite of them all. A little disappointing actually, but I love Matt Damon so wanna support him.

Today after working on the house all day we went away together to a spa. We rented out a hot tub for an hour and then got a 90 minute massage.
It was amazing.
It was nice to be with Dru and it was nice to have a massage. We're very lucky.

We then headed into town and went to our favourite sushi restaurant........Yoitomo. They're the best sushi in town bar none, and Dru tells me he's been to them all!!


We sat and talked and ate some nice sushi which was very satisfying.
We then came home to our mates and kids.


I wanted to re-enact our picture I have on our nightstand when we were dating.
It was pretty funny...........well the kids thought so, at least.



I think we look pretty good 15 years later and a whole lifetime of experiences together.

There my original rings I had before they were stolen.
Dru fell asleep after I took this picture and I put the kids to bed and here I am blogging.
I got a text from Bishop tonight asking me to do a talk tomorrow at church.
We have 9am church!!
This gave me less than 12 hours to write a talk, 8 of which I'd like to be sleeping for, and 1.5 of them getting ready and the kids ready for church!!
We'll see how it goes.

There's not much I can say that I haven't said before about Dru and being his wife and mate. He loves me for who I am, warts and all. I'll forever be grateful for that.
He's shown and taught me what true love is and what it feels like. It's my most precious gift that I hold deep in my heart. Having his love, his trust, friendship and devotion means everything to me.
He's the perfect companion for me and I'm grateful we have each other. Everyday with him is a good day, I know this.
I can't believe it's been 15 years already and on the flip side it seems like it's been a lot longer, almost like I can't remember my life without him in it.
He has a piece of me that no one else has. I'm glad he has it. It's safe with him and looked after.
He looks after the kids and I like a good man should. 15 years with him have been the best 15 of my life. I love him and try to show him daily through different ways. I'm grateful.
Happy 15 to us.
I hope that there are many out there who feel or who have felt loved the way that we love. When you're happy, you want that for everyone.
I hope everyone can have a 'dru' in their lives.

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I went out the other night to celebrate Danielle being pregnant for the first time. Danielle is the one on the opposite end of me. They're hoping it's a girl and they find out on Monday. I'm sure they'll be happy with whatever it is, as long as it's healthy, cause at the end of the day, that's all you really care about.
We met up at frozen yogurt and talked the night away, as women do, and had a really fun time. I'm glad I went.

Emiko wanted to be a cat this day. So I helped out. I called her wonder cat woman. I don't think she cared. But she's pretty cute.
She had a rough day today (Saturday) due to not doing her chores. I dunno if it sank in, but I hope by sticking to my guns, she'll improve with her behaviour.

This kid went in for his 12 week check up. His teeth have improved so much just in the 12 weeks his braces have been on. I can't even believe it. This October he'll have another year left. All signs point to them being perfect by then if this is what they're looking like now. He's had blue, green and now orange bands on his teeth. I wonder how many colours they have? And how come they're not putting one on the tooth in the bottom middle?
So he's not combing his hair daily and he said that he'd been trying to get a tug out of his hair for a couple of days and it wasn't coming out, so he just chopped that part of his hair off.
So that's one way to do it. Dru and I told him another way, maybe to consider, is telling us about it, so we can help by using good conditioner and detangler spray and some good brushing skillz and NOT cutting our hair, randomly at the front of our heads.
I mean at the end of the day I don't really care what he does with his hair, but if he'd just asked for help, this weird spot at the front of his head wouldn't be there. Have a look next time you see him, you'll see it.
I told him if he doesn't start combing his hair on a daily basis I'll shave it all. I think he wants to look like his Uncle Bevin though, and Bevin never combed his hair and said as such. So I dunno man. I mean he's allowed to do what he wants with his hair right? It's his hair and it's not hurting anyone right? This is something I can give him power over and make him feel like he's making his own decisions over which is important at this age.
Who knows man.

Takeshi got some pirate tattoos from his Auntie for his birthday. So we all put some on.
Here's Yuki's.
Yuki has been great. She does what she's asked. She's just argumentative with her brothers and can be quite mean.
I see a lot of me in her and cringe. I need to be a better example. I blame her bad habits on being around me too much. I feel bad about it.

Here's Emiko's cute arm.

What the kids chose out for me.

Takeshi's pirate arm.
Friday night Dru and Keith got started on our wall in the front yard as well as the pump track in the back yard. Keith had been staying up till 2am watching youtube pumptrack video's trying to think of the best pump tracks.
The wall looks amazing. Dru and Keith did a wonderful job. Now we just have to plant in the front and sort the sprinklers out and it'll be just perfect.


Here's Keith and Dru contemplating about the pump track.
It's a little more pump-ier than what I'd imagined. But I need to ride it and see if I like it. We can change it, if needed, but I'm 'pumped' about it man. It should be way fun.
Keith worked hard on it and we're very grateful.




A part of our grass is ruined, but grass can be replaced so I don't care actually. Which I'm quite surprised about.

This will have three lanes and then Dru and I are considering a 4th and 5th down the side. We've run out of dirt though. So it'll have to wait. Meanwhile we'll have to get used to this and see how we like it.
Pretty cool right?

Thursday, July 28, 2016

Takeshi's 7th birthday

So this week, like the others, has been a busy one. We have something on every night. Therefore we had to change Takeshi's birthday party to Tuesday so he could have some mates over and have some fun this year. His real birthday was on Wednesday.
My mate, Nawang, makes wonderful Sherpa food called momo's and sells them. We had that for Takeshi's birthday dinner. He LOVES them, so it was perfect. She gifted some to him. Perfect present.
He then had a few mates around for a swim, cake and smores. Easy for me and fun for the kids!! My kinda get together.

Here they are swimming.







Then we opened gifts.



Then we fed them cake. It was a huge hit. He wanted an 'Earth to Echo' cake. It's a movie. But I got to looking at the character and I wasn't up to making something that complicated. So I asked him if I could simply do an Earth cake. He said yes cause he's nice like that.
So this is what I came up with. It's not my best work by a long shot, but it'll do and they ate the WHOLE thing. I didn't get a piece because it was all gone. So that's a success.


Here they are singing 'Happy Birthday'




Then Takeshi started the fire and the kids roasted smores.



Then Takeshi started playing with some of his gifts.
We stayed up a little later and talked with mates and relaxed. It was a nice night and I think the kids had fun and I didn't have to do much at all. I was really grateful.
Takeshi had a fun time.


The next morning was his actual birthday. I saved the family gifts for this day, which was really nice.
Here he is opening his gift from my mate Kat. He wore that badge all day and ate his NZ chocolate.

Cold, hard, cash from Grandma. Always a big hit.


Perfectly wrapped gift from his Auntie Brooke.


Loved the legos!!


Auntie Les hooked Takeshi up with this sweet gift which he loves.

Grandma from NZ gave him this gift when we were over there. He picked it out himself and totally forgot what he'd gotten himself. So it was a surprize!!! Thanks Grandma.

Sweet bone carving. It's a Manaia. Here's the meaning.
Traditionally greenstone manaia are depicted with a head of a bird, the body of a man, and the tail of a fish. It is widely accepted as a tribal guardian and a supernatural being, with some carved as grotesque figures, and others carved as almost human with a fierce facial expression. The new age understanding of the manaia is that it represents the balance between the sky, the earth and the sea. Its design is based on birds which are seen as vehicles for the souls of the dead as they travel to the afterlife. Birds were so valued by Maori that their cries were listened to and their movements watched with care. As a result, all manaia serve as guardians and givers of omens. To wear one can protect from evil, and connect the wearer with the souls of the dead. They are usually depicted in profile, and some feel this is because part of the manaia is in the spiritual world, part in this.


Then he opened his gift from us. One is still turning up.
This one is a remote control car. He asks for one every year. So this year we got him a decent one. He loves it. I love these pic's.




Then he went outside and checked the mail and totally ontime was Autnie Kristin's card.
Good timing.


Way pumped to have more cash. Thanks Kristin.


Then later on we attempted to go to a movie but it was closed, so we went to swimming lessons and then I dropped the kids home and just took Takeshi to Pizza Pie Cafe. He wanted to go there because he had a coupon for a monster cookie.
Well played Pizza Pie Cafe!!!
So we went there and let him talk about all the important things he had to say.


Here's his monster cookie. It was whipped cream, ice cream and cookie. He didn't finish it hahahaha
He thought he was going to get a GIGANTIC cookie. I think he was a little bummed but tried to act happy.
Then he played with his toys all afternoon until it was time to go to rugby practice.





Here he is with the ball.
They all sang him happy birthday.
We saw our kiwi buddy Hamish there. It was nice to catch up with him.
Our car battery died and so Hamish had to rescue us. Lucky man.
Then we came home, had something to eat and watched a movie together.
It was nice.

Then today Nawang took the kids to 'Blue Cow' frozen yogurt to help celebrate.
So nice right?
What a great mate.
Here they are with her parents who are in town right now.

They came and stayed and visited for a couple of hours and I got to know Nawang's mum and dad a lot better. They even put the prayer flags up in our new house!! They look great.
Nawang's father has climbed Mt Everest 3 times and lived to tell the tale. It's like I was sitting beside royalty!
He said after the third time he decided to stop because God had blessed him with good luck three times and he didn't want to push his lucy any further as there has been a lot of accidents and deaths over the years.
He considers himself blessed and is happy.
His wife is just as cool and was glad he decided to stop so she could have him around! I don't blame her.
They'd met Sir Edmund Hillary a few times in their lives and love NZ and her father has even been to NZ once and loved it.
Top people man. What a treat to talk to them.

I'm grateful to good mates and that Takeshi had a good few days. Birthdays are so special and I'm glad his was a good celebration.

Takeshi is so great and in the same breath is so tough for me as well.
For the most part he's easy going and happy and very sensitive and kind.
But if you want him to do his chores or his homework then you get a fight on your hands.
It wears me down, day after day after day.
I go through different phases of trying to help him complete his tasks and we only have a successful day once in a blue moon.
Oh well.
He always has a lot of stories to tell and is game for whatever. He's a great eater and has a quick, firey temper like his mother. He's over it in minutes though and puts himself in time out. He's done this as long as I can remember, which is great.
Takeshi is so good looking he stands out. I get so many compliments about this kid and it's all true.
I know the headaches aren't gonna end with this kid, but I'm grateful for him being in my life and for what he brings to the table and the things he teaches me.
I love him and I hope I can be the mother he wants me to be and when he looks back on his life he remembers fond memories of us.

Tuesday, July 26, 2016

Pugs' cabin


So we headed down to our mates, Pug's and Stacey's, cabin for the weekend.
There's no mtb so we just go, relax and eat and talk all weekend. It's pretty nice.
The cabin is so nice you just don't wanna leave it.
Here's all the kids.
Their friends, the Maxwell's, were there as well. They're a great family, so it worked perfect for our kids.




We played one game all weekend, over and over. It's called "Code Names"
It's AWESOME.
I loved it. It's low key so you can chat while you play and we played girls vs boys. It was pretty even by the end of the weekend.



Dru figured out a way to make mass smores without starting a fire or letting the kids catch ticks outside. He copped come flack for it from some of his family and mates but we just didn't wanna fuss with it and just put the kids to bed.
They worked out perfectly.

We ate way too much food while we were up there man.
I swear to you I gained 10 pounds!!!
I'm on a food fast.

This is Stacey's boy, Milo. Masaru and Yuki loved him and said they missed him when we got home.

We went for a hike with the two younger kids down to the river. It was nice.




Lando came with us.

Here we are at the river.

And here's Emiko right before she needed to pee.




Takeshi took our bottles and kept them cool in the river.

He was pretty proud of that.




Takeshi and his peace signs man.

We had a blast just being together. It was nice to be with good people and to hang out all weekend.
Thanks to Pugs for being a great host.


Emiko trying to keep the sun outt've her eyes on the way home.
Pretty cute.

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