So I have a love/hate relationship with father's day that I've told you all about year after year after year when father's day comes around. So I won't go into it, it's pretty self explanatory if you know me and if you don't? Well who are you? What are you doing stalking my blog? Reveal yourself stalker and I'll tell all.
There was a huge sale on NZ rugby shirts and so I got Dru this rugby shirt. I love it. I think it has a great Maori pattern on it and Dru will get to explain as such to the USA peeps over here.
Now back in NZ it's the rugby shirt for the Auckland Blues team.
None of my family like them........................like AT ALL. I think they'd rather eat their own hands then be caught in this shirt. Basically word on the street is no one outside of Auckland likes this team.
But I explained to my family as long as Dru didn't wear it in NZ it'd be all good right?
They agreed and understood how it'd look like a 'cool shirt' to people in the USA and all gave me their blessing hahahahaha
So after that lengthy discussion with my family, I purchased the shirt and Dru loved it.
I also woke up at 7am in order to be able to get started on this 5 hour cake for him. I asked him what he wanted for fathers day and this is what he wanted. He also suggested things for dinner and so after the cake I got started with dinner as well. Consequently I didn't shower cause I ran out of time preparing everything for the day's events.
I wanted to let him sleep in and do all this food and prep the kids and feed them etc but it didn't work out that way. I bit off more than I could chew and he ended up help out, which is fine right?
Masaru made him this decked out Land Cruiser that can go in the snow. Dru loved it.
Yuki made him this card. I love that she drew him with a beard. I remember drawing pictures like that of my father. It was nice he had a beard cause it was easy to tell him from the other fathers in my drawings.
Emiko made this in nursery at church. Dru thought this was really cute.
Takeshi was sleeping in with Dru for the morning so he didn't get a chance to make Dru anything.
We went around and said what we loved about Dru and gave him hugs and kisses.
Church was really good as none of the talks were on Father's which I really appreciated. It's tough to sit and listen to someone going on and on about how much they do with their Dad etc Yeah I should get over it, but I can't, so it is what it is man.
It was 3 highschool graduating girls who could talk on whatever they wanted. Their talks were pretty amazing, honest, raw and faith filled. I liked it. Then another girl sang for her message to us. I really liked the song and she did a great job.
I was asked a week ago if I could do a song with the primary kids for a musical item. I resent being asked with such little time, but the children pulled it off barely and I apologized to the mother's for not having the children sing to them on mother's day. Maybe it was a nice mother's day gift to me to NOT do that in church. I get quite nervous. I'd rather do a talk over the pulpit than conduct the children to the audience at church!! I guess it's why this calling is good for me, puts me outt've my comfort zone sometimes.
I got home and continued to cook and bake and get things organized for Dru. All Dru wanted was for me to sit down with him and cuddle him though.
So I calmed down, got the kids situated and lay on the couch with him and we eventually fell alseep while the kids ran havoc around the house!!
We so happened to be looking after some mates dogs for the weekend and they'd come to pick their dogs up so that woke us up.
I know, two weeks in a row, I hope that's the last time in a while and our 'service to people with animals' is done for the year!!! One can hope. Nah it wasn't that bad, but I don't wanna look after people's dogs man. Turns out I'm a total sucker for them and end up worrying about them and cuddling them and such. I don't need that drama in my life, I've got things to do man and children to care for!!
We then dropped off some of that cake I made to our neighbours and a couple of mates. Dru was a little upset about that but I refused to have any of that cake left over in my house. It's what I do man, bake and give away, bake and give away. It's a healthy pattern!!
Dinner was really good and then we went for a bike ride together as a family. We went around and tried to visit a couple of families who weren't home and then finally one of the family's were home and we stayed and visited for a while. Dru wanted to make them something and so needed some measurements from them to get it started.
We then biked home, got the kids in their PJ's and bed and had 'games night' with our BFF's the Bleazards.
I tried really hard to win, and didn't. Usually I don't care but Robby asked me to try really hard to win, so I figured it was father's day and so I'd adhere to his wishes. Turns out in the game 'settlers' no matter where you heart is, if your not getting cards for 3 turns in a row, it's pretty hard to win. So Dru won. Happy father's day to Dru.
We had good conversation and then Robby entertained us with showing us his guitar hero skillz. He can do a few songs on expert and I wanted to see an expert in real life.
He then showed us what a 'real' expert was like and tried to play one of the hardest songs on the track. He got booed off. I guess Nat's brother is really good. He gets home from his mission in 44 days, his mother tells me, so we'll have to have him over one night for dinner and force him to show us his mad skillz.
I asked Dru if he had a good day and he said 'I don't want it to end'
So I say I did my job pretty well.
I'm grateful for Dru and him being the father of my kids. He's the best and I'll love him forever.