Are there experiences in your life that have molded your character to what it is today? Choose an event or experience to record and then write about how it has helped mold your character.There's two experiences that come to mind.
You probably already know what I'm going to say.
The two BIGGEST, rock my world, CHANGE my life, experiences that I've had are as follows:
*Dad's death.
*Marriage to Dru.
I've written about Dad before so I'll keep it brief.
Dad's death was sudden and I wasn't expecting it. Life was normal and good. When he died it changed my life, forever. Nothing else has done that to me in the same way that that event has, in my life.
It changed my outlook on EVERYTHING.
It strengthened my testimony of the plan of salvation.
It's helped me in my planning as a wife and mother.
But it's also changed in a sad way.
My dad was the best story teller ever. I don't know of anyone else who was better. I miss it, and my kids don't get to hear the tales in this earthly life.
Dru doesn't get to know him until much later.
Mum and dad aren't together any more and she's married again, which has been a hard adjustment for all involved.
I often wonder what life would've been like, had he still been around.
I don't dwell on it for too long though as it's depressing and I can't change events.
Every father's day sucks for me.
Every time I hear the song 'Where the streets have no name' I get teary eyed and sometimes bawl like a baby (U2 was one of it not his favourite band ever and he used to sit and listen to it on his record player and sing to it at the top of his lungs)
Every time 'death' is brought up my mind goes straight to my fathers death.
I hate funerals.
I also am not a fan of the hymn 'God be with you till we meet again'
I gained more respect for Elder Ballard who wrote a tiny book on suicide which helped me big time.
This single event has changed my life forever, who I am, how I approach things, and sometimes my emotional state.
My marriage to Dru has changed my life because I had to change countries. This has been a HUGE adjustment for me, and let's get serious, still is an adjustment, even after eight years.
America just isn't my country. Sorry America.
Never in my wildest dreams was I planning on living here in the states.
Whenever I thought about my life in the future, it was in New Zealand. EVERYTHING was in New Zealand.
So when my brother asked me if my life has turned out how I thought it would I simply answered 'No it hasn't, as my life never had America in it'
So the minute I got married I had to let all of my plans go as I had NO IDEA what life was going to be like here, cause I'd never lived here, I didn't know the culture, the people, the life etc etc.
It's changed my life.
I had to move away from everything I know my family, my friends, my culture, my ward, my country.
If I wanna be around it I need to pay $1000 and sit for 15 hours to get it.
But it must be an adjustment for Dru as well, I imagine. He had to take me on board, not knowing how things were going to work out in the future and where we would be.
Think about it.........................when you were sitting there and thinking about YOUR future..........did it involve living FOREVER in another country? My guess is 8 out of 10 of you NEVER imagined living in another country, cause you all thought you'd marry someone from your own country right?
Imagine living in another country and those changes!!
It'd change your life FOREVER right?
Well that's me.
HOWEVER.........................would I change it? Not for a second because of Dru. He's my partner in crime, my BFF.
It doesn't matter where he's from, he's it, and I'd live anywhere in the world, if it meant I was with him. I'd hope he'd feel the same way. I know he does ;) Most days LOL
Would I prefer he was a kiwi and brought up kiwi? I've thought about it and sometimes I really wish he was brought up a kiwi and we met and just lived there you know.
But my life is what it is and the events that have happened have been good ones.
Living here has brought opportunities to my family and friends to come over and visit, where I don't think they would've had Dru and I not been here.
My opinion of Americans has changed a little....................jokes man jokes..............A LOT. And I even find myself sticking up for American's in New Zealand (I never thought there'd come a day)
So there you have it folks The two events that happened in my life that has CHANGED ME FOREVER.